The Law of Your Mother!

by James Smith, 1861


"Do not forsake the law of your mother!" Proverbs 1:8

A mother's influence is great; a mother's love is strong. Every mother therefore should endeavor to use her influence wisely, and for her child's eternal good. A very great responsibility rests upon godly mothers, which they should realize, and realizing should act under a sense of it. The mother's life should be the child's lesson; and the mother's words should be the child's law. The authority of the mother is essentially the authority of love; and the teachings of the mother should be the teachings of love. With these thoughts in the mind, we want to enforce the inspired admonition to the young, "Do not forsake the law of your mother!"

The OBJECT to Be Regarded. A godly mother's law. O what a privilege to have a godly mother! One who knows . . .
  the value of the soul,
  the person of the Savior,
  the way of salvation, and
  the power of vital piety in her own heart.

Such a mother will teach her child . . .
  to value what is really important and spiritual;
  to secure a saving interest in eternal felicity;
  to avoid the sinful and the dangerous;
  to do the necessary and the moral;
  to enjoy the lawful and the profitable;
  to prepare for the future and eternal.

In a word, she will enforce on her child the advice of the Savior, "Seek first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness." The salvation of the child's soul will be nearest her heart. The early and entire consecration of her child to God will be the object at which she aims. For this she will teach, and pray and act. Nor will less than this, ever satisfy her maternal mind.

Every child should . . .
  carefully attend to a mother's teaching,
  treasure up a mother's lessons,
  bear in mind the object of a mother's prayers,
  and endeavor to carry out a mother's wishes.

Notice then,

The TEMPTATION to Be Resisted. When young people leave home, and enter into a place of business, or some school to learn a trade, or a profession they find themselves surrounded by new circumstances. They often fall in with new companions, and are plied with new temptations.

Away from home, away from under a mother's eye, out of the reach of the sound of a mother's voice they are apt to forget the law of their mother. They once thought that they never would, never could but they do!

Not only so, they are tempted to forsake a mother's law, and adopt a new and untried rule of life, perhaps the very opposite to that which their mother gave them.

Then they begin to pursue a different course, and a downward course too. This is smooth and easy at first. The flesh is pleased, youthful lusts are gratified, bad habits are contracted, and death, eternal death, is sought in the error of their ways! O how many young men, how many young women, have been ruined, by forsaking the law of their mother! Hence,

The ADMONITION, "Do not forsake the law of your mother."

Think of a mother's love so strong, so tender, and so constant.

Think of a mother's wisdom implanted in her heart, by your mother's God.

Think of a mother's concern for her child how deep, how lively, how uninterrupted.

A child may forget its mother but the mother will never forget her child. The child's interest in its mother may die out but the mother's interest in her child never will.

A mother's love is an undying love.

A mother's wisdom is quick and inventive.

A mother's concern for her offspring is as lasting as her life.

Think of meeting your mother before God in judgment! Then her lessons will all be revived in your memory then her prayers and tears will come up before you anew. Then she will rejoice in your salvation OR acquiesce in the sentence of the just judge, when he bids you to depart from him into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels! Yes, your mother will acquiesce in what is just, even in the eternal condemnation of her child as a hardened, persevering rebel against God!

O how solemn the thought a mother obliged to agree to the banishment of her child from God and eternal glory unto eternal Hell! Think of having the image of your mother a holy mother, a glorified mother stamped upon your memory forever in Hell. Think of hearing that tender, touching voice warning, entreating, and beseeching you to flee to Jesus stamped upon your mind forever in Hell. Think of having the law of your mother, and the efforts of your mother to save you ever before you, when all hope is gone, and every way of escape is barred, and barred forever!

Think of how you may now add to her joy, by deciding for God; OR increase her sorrow, by going on still in your trespasses.

Young man, young woman, by all the tenderness of a mother's love, by the intense concern of a mother's heart if you would not shorten the days of her life, or embitter her dying hours, I beseech you, "Do not forsake the law of your mother!"

By the dread thought of meeting your mother as a witness against you at the final judgment, and hearing her testify her approval of the sentence of condemnation, pronounced on you, by the Savior you have insulted and rejected I beseech you, "Do not forsake the law of your mother!"

By the horrid thought of being . . .
  haunted by the remembrance of your mother's form,
  tormented by the remembrance of your mother's prayers,
  and pierced through and through with the recollection of your mother's tears in Hell forever; I beseech you, "Do not forsake the law of your mother!"

As you may greatly add to your mother's joys, OR increase your mother's sorrows; by all the love of a child, by the duty of a child I beg you, "Do not forsake the law of your mother!"

Few realize the value of a mother as they should, while they have one especially a godly mother. But when death has done its work in her, when her soul has departed, to look at a mother's corpse, to follow the coffin that contains a mother's remains, or to stand by a mother's grave will awaken strange thoughts, new feelings, and perhaps bitter regrets. While you have a mother love her, obey her, and make her heart glad.

Many forget and forsake the law of their mother, when away from her. This is unwise, it is unkind, it is ungrateful. A mother's advice . . .
  is unselfish;
  it is only for her child's good,
  it is the offspring of the deepest love, and
  often the result of the most earnest fervent prayers.

But fascinated by our companions,
deceived by an unbelieving heart,
allured by a false and vain world, and
ensnared by a cruel and crafty devil
  too many of our young people forsake the law of their mother! Many will wish but wish in vain, that they never had such a mother!
It will increase their condemnation,
it will add to their torments, and
will give intensity to the bitter pangs generated by hopeless despair!
The thoughts of what their mother was, what their mother did, and how their mother tried to prevent their ruin will make Hell ten times hotter than it would otherwise be to many a child of godly parents.

But on the other hand, many will bless God forever for . . .
  a mother's love,
  a mother's example,
  and a mother's law.

That love won the heart for Jesus;
that example was a constant lesson of warning, reproof, and instruction;
and that law constrained the soul to bow to the scepter of Jesus, and trust alone in his blessed name.

Young friends, endeavor to realize the value of a godly mother, while you have one! Never, never, let anyone, or anything tempt you to forsake her law lest in Hell you should bitterly and eternally regret it! But let a mother's love, a mother's example, and a mother's law lead you at once to Jesus that you may meet your mother with joy at last, and dwell with her in Heaven forever!